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November 18th, 2009

Scene at home today

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Kaitlin: *from behind her bedroom door* *cries*

Me: *goes in* What's the matter, sweetie?

Kaitlin: My teeth got hurt.

Me: Oh no, what happened?

Kaitlin: I bited the doorstop.

Me: *snerk* You bit the doorstop?

Kaitlin: Yeah, to try to stretch it.

Me: *bursts out laughing* Well no wonder your teeth hurt!




She's all better now :D

November 17th, 2009

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37. Logicomix: An Epic Search for Truth - Apostolos Doxiadis and Christos Papadimitriou
36. Newton and the Counterfeiter: The Unknown Detective Career of the World's Greatest Scientist - Thomas Levenson
35. The Physics of Superheroes - James Kakalios
34. Wishful Drinking - Carrie Fisher
33. The Complete Chronicles of Narnia - C.S. Lewis
32. A Brief History of Neoliberalism - David Harvey
31. 206 Bones - Kathy Reichs
30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama
28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

[info]olmandude gave me this book last week. It's a graphic novel about the life of philosopher, mathematician, and logician Bertrand Russell and his quest to give mathematics truly solid logical foundations instead of what they had at the time which was filled with axioms and circular definitions. It turns out after all his hard work that you do actually have to assume some things and not everything can be proven definitively (though he really did try) but this still works as long as everything is internally consistent. I thought it was a great story.

November 9th, 2009

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Car is back from the shop. Turns out the corrosion that we cleaned off when replacing the battery was the only thing keeping the battery connected to the car. It worked for a little while, then something got bumped and no joy. So a $5 part and $100 of labor (which [info]olmandude paid for, Thanks so much!) later we're back on the road.

On the whole, it could have been much, much worse.

Books read this year

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36. Newton and the Counterfeiter: The Unknown Detective Career of the World's Greatest Scientist - Thomas Levenson
35. The Physics of Superheroes - James Kakalios

34. Wishful Drinking - Carrie Fisher
33. The Complete Chronicles of Narnia - C.S. Lewis
32. A Brief History of Neoliberalism - David Harvey
31. 206 Bones - Kathy Reichs
30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama
28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

Newton and the Counterfeiter is really good for a history book, and okay for story. Levenson sometimes gets caught up in the interesting details and side stories and forgets he's trying to create a narrative, but for all that it is really a great read and is kind of like reading about a real-life Sherlock Holmes catching his Moriarty.

Physics of Superheroes isn't the best Physics of... book I've picked up, but I did learn a lot about comics! And evidently there's a new edition out.

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So on Friday afternoon I walked down to El Cerrito Plaza to pick up the car so I could go pick up Kaitlin from daycare, and when I got there and tried to start the car--nothing. I checked the headlights and it looked like they had been on all day. We called AAA and it turned out that not only was the battery dead, it was also bad and needed to be replaced. (Apparently you're supposed to replace them every 3 years. We've had that battery for probably five years.) So there went $120, but we figured the problem was fixed and went on our merry way.

And it seemed to work until last night. Josh went to work late to finish up some things he hadn't gotten to on Saturday and since it was so late he took the car. Going there was fine, but when he left early in the morning (or late last night) he went into the car and--nothing. The lights hadn't even been left on this time. He walked home and went to bed and told me he wasn't entirely sure that the problem wasn't just that he was tired and was doing in wrong. So this morning I left early and went to the Plaza instead of the BART station to check the car. And--you guessed it--nothing. It doesn't click, the lights don't turn on, we've got nada. I don't know if they gave us a bad battery, which wouldn't be so bad since it's under warranty, or if there's just something seriously wrong with the car, which would SUCK.

October 31st, 2009

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Favorite lyrics:

Zoloft and Paxil and Buspar and Xanex, Depacon, Chronaphin, Ambien, Prozac,
Ativan calms me when I see the bills.
These are a few of my favorite pills.

October 22nd, 2009

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34. Wishful Drinking - Carrie Fisher
33. The Complete Chronicles of Narnia - C.S. Lewis
32. A Brief History of Neoliberalism - David Harvey
31. 206 Bones - Kathy Reichs
30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama
28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

Carrie Fisher's autobiography is wonderful, especially if you're a fan of black humor like I am. I knew she had had addiction issues and that she has bipolar disorder, but it's different reading about how she describes her own experience. It's actually a lot like reading the journal of one of my bipolar LJ friends, but I won't say which since this is a public entry (not that people don't know zie is bipolar anyway, but still).

All in all, a very quick and very fun read, especially if you've ever seen Star Wars (and really, if you haven't, where have you been for the last thirty years?). I may have to get my hands on some of her novels.

October 16th, 2009

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How many days should you wait before seeing a doctor about a persistent headache that is mitigated (but not relieved) with Advil? It's been four days now for me.

October 15th, 2009

Books read this year

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33. The Complete Chronicles of Narnia - C.S. Lewis
32. A Brief History of Neoliberalism - David Harvey
31. 206 Bones - Kathy Reichs
30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama
28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

These are kids books, so I figured I'd give myself credit after reading the whole series instead of for each individual book. I started re-reading them after watching the movie version of Prince Caspian a couple of months back. (The movie is mostly uninspiring, but it's worth sitting through it just to see/hear Eddie Izzard as Reepicheep.) Most of them are still quite good, but I hadn't realized as a kid exactly what the racial overtones were whenever the Calormenes were discussed, particularly in The Last Battle--which, by the way, is the book I think holds up least well in my adulthood. This may have something to do with my no longer being a faithful member of The Church™ since so much of it is about end times and heaven and choosing Aslan (God/Jesus) over Tash (The Devil) and not believing in either is portrayed as worse than choosing the wrong one. Overall though it was fun to re-live part of my childhood, even if I remember being absolutely devastated when I found out that Narnia was dead in the last book.

October 14th, 2009

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32. A Brief History of Neoliberalism - David Harvey
31. 206 Bones - Kathy Reichs
30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama
28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

This book was very enlightening about economics and politics over the last 30 years. Especially in the US, but internationally as well. Harvey definitely has a bias, but it's a very open one and there is a lot of hard data to support his conclusions. If you're not into politics or economics it might be a tough read, but if you do like them then I highly recommend it.

October 13th, 2009

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The rain was so bad today that one of the roads up to campus was closed--and it happened to be the road that my bus takes to get there. (This is actually kind of fortuitous for me since I didn't go to my class today anyway because I'm sick. I slept for four hours today and I could stand to take another nap.) BART trains were slowing down too. I don't think it has ever stopped raining today, but the rain has at least started slowing down.

It's supposed to rain tomorrow too. The good news is it's supposed to be sunny for the four days after that so we should still be able to have Kaitlin's birthday party outside. This is very good as we're up to 7 kids and maybe as many as 10 adults (including us) if everyone who said they would come shows up. I might have invited too many people, but I honestly wasn't expecting so many to say they could make it! The last two years I invited a bunch of people and the only ones that came were the folks who lived upstairs and a couple of relatives.

October 12th, 2009

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Since I'm up late working on stuff I need to turn in at school tomorrow this seemed like a perfect time to put it off even more and finally update the Livejournal I've been ignoring for *checks* at least 12 days now. Longer really if you ignore my C&P posts.

The biggest deal going on recently is, of course, my fourth anniversary of parenthood, also known as Kaitlin's birthday. It was very fun waking her up in the morning because she went from barely conscious to wide-awake in a tenth of a second after I said "Happy Birthday!" to her. She was a bit upset that it being her birthday did not mean we were having the party right then, but we did let her open up one of her presents to make up for it. (A toy tool chest, which she loves by the way. She's been using it to "build" a "computer holder" ever since. This mostly involves hammering the nails that came with it and putting two pieces of wood up against each other so she can "saw" them apart.) The actual party is going to be on the 18th and should be a lot of fun. [info]olmandude suggested that he would bring a piñata and we're going to have mini-pumpkins for the kids to paint. Add in food, cake, and presents and we should be pretty well set for party activities. I just hope it doesn't rain so that we can have it outside like we planned instead of figuring out how this will work inside.

The other big thing is the reason the party is next week instead of having it today (er, yesterday). Josh's dad got married yesterday. It was a really short ceremony, which is good because for some reason when we arrived at the church Kaitlin got it into her head that a)we were going to leave her there alone and b)the wedding was going to be really scary. I have no idea where she got either idea, but it wasn't going away so she and I sat outside while Josh took pictures inside. She didn't even like the idea of the reception (the "party" after). She didn't calm down until we told her that, okay, we won't go to the party, we'll just go have dinner with everyone. At dinner she was fine, so I don't really know what the problem was. I got to meet the new wife's family which was pretty cool. I like my new step-sisters-in-law and their boyfriends. We hung out a lot last night and this morning. I was hoping to have more time to get homework done, but oh well. Josh took Kaitlin for a two hour walk around Clear Lake this morning so at least I had time to do some reading, if not the writing.

Speaking of school, it could be better, it could be worse. The Research Methods class has so far been mostly telling us why it's important to take a research methods class. We should be getting into actual content this week. Urban Sociology has been disappointing. There is no textbook, and no reader either. In theory this was going to mean we do a lot of class discussion and learn that way. In practice it's been more like an exercise in how to Google. This might change when we move past the short essays and get into the major project for the quarter. French is okay, but I really miss the teacher I had for French in high school. Mr. Goma is pretty haphazard in his instruction and often expects us to know things he hasn't taught yet. If I hadn't had two years of French in high school I'd be lost. I'd drop the class, but I really want to take part 2 next quarter (albeit with a different teacher) so I'm sticking with it. If it turns out he's the only teacher available in the Winter though I'm giving up on the whole idea. Globalization has been really interesting. I'm not sure how well I'm going to do at the writing for the class, and I guess I won't really have any idea until I get my first paper back next week. The book we've been reading is called A Brief History of Neoliberalization and it has been very eye-opening with regards to global politics and US politics and economics in particular for the last 30 years. The book is a few years old though (2005). It would be very interesting to hear what the author thinks now that we're having the financial crisis he said was predicted then. After this week we're moving on to another book, this time about the tourist economy in Jamaica. At least, that's what I think it's about, I haven't started reading it yet.

The walk to the train in the morning is actually pretty nice now that I've gotten some time to get used to it. It feels good to be able to walk at a normal pace instead of the slow crawl I get when walking with Kaitlin. The walking commute will get more interesting soon when we go into the rainy season. We've got umbrellas and a rain suit so hopefully it will still work. If it doesn't, I've got a Translink card and a bus line that goes to a BART station within a block of here.

Kaitlin helped me go grocery shopping last week so we bought two pie pumpkins. We baked them on Saturday before leaving to go up to Clear Lake. I got way more pumpkin puree than I expected out of it, so we're going to have to make more than just pumpkin pie. I was thinking of trying to come up with a recipe for pumpkin soup or maybe pumpkin pancakes or pumpkin bread. I remember seeing a recipe online a while back for a pumpkin latte that uses actual pumpkin instead of the syrup they have at Starbucks, so that's an idea too. (Can I say that word a little more? Pumpkin, pumpkin, pumpkin.) Whatever I do, I'll have to do it in the next week since they only recommend you keep it in the fridge for five days after you bake them.

September 30th, 2009

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Reminder: Roman Polanski raped a child

Kate Harding

Sep. 28, 2009 |

Roman Polanski raped a child. Let's just start right there, because that's the detail that tends to get neglected when we start discussing whether it was fair for the bail-jumping director to be arrested at age 76, after 32 years in "exile" (which in this case means owning multiple homes in Europe, continuing to work as a director, marrying and fathering two children, even winning an Oscar, but never -- poor baby -- being able to return to the U.S.). Let's keep in mind that Roman Polanski gave a 13-year-old girl a Quaalude and champagne, then raped her, before we start discussing whether the victim looked older than her 13 years, or that she now says she'd rather not see him prosecuted because she can't stand the media attention. Before we discuss how awesome his movies are or what the now-deceased judge did wrong at his trial, let's take a moment to recall that according to the victim's grand jury testimony, Roman Polanski instructed her to get into a jacuzzi naked, refused to take her home when she begged to go, began kissing her even though she said no and asked him to stop; performed cunnilingus on her as she said no and asked him to stop; put his penis in her vagina as she said no and asked him to stop; asked if he could penetrate her anally, to which she replied, "No," then went ahead and did it anyway, until he had an orgasm.

Can we do that? Can we take a moment to think about all that, and about the fact that Polanski pled guilty to unlawful sex with a minor, before we start talking about what a victim he is? Because that would be great, and not nearly enough people seem to be doing it.

The French press, for instance (at least according to the British press) is describing Polanski "as the victim of a money-grabbing American mother and a publicity-hungry Californian judge." Joan Z. Shore at the Huffington Post, who once met Polanski and "was utterly charmed by [his] sobriety and intelligence," also seems to believe that a child with an unpleasant stage mother could not possibly have been raped: "The 13-year old model 'seduced' by Polanski had been thrust onto him by her mother, who wanted her in the movies." Oh, well, then! If her mom put her into that situation, that makes it much better! Shore continues: "The girl was just a few weeks short of her 14th birthday, which was the age of consent in California. (It's probably 13 by now!) Polanski was demonized by the press, convicted, and managed to flee, fearing a heavy sentence."

Wow, OK, let's break that down. First, as blogger Jeff Fecke says, "Fun fact: the age of consent in 1977 in California was 16. It's now 18. But of course, the age of consent isn't like horseshoes or global thermonuclear war; close doesn't count. Even if the age of consent had been 14, the girl wasn't 14." Also, even if the girl had been old enough to consent, she testified that she did not consent. There's that. Though of course everyone makes a bigger deal of her age than her testimony that she did not consent, because if she'd been 18 and kept saying no while he kissed her, licked her, screwed her and sodomized her, this would almost certainly be a whole different story -- most likely one about her past sexual experiences and drug and alcohol use, about her desire to be famous, about what she was wearing, about how easy it would be for Roman Polanski to get consensual sex, so hey, why would he need to rape anyone? It would quite possibly be a story about a wealthy and famous director who pled not guilty to sexual assault, was acquitted on "she wanted it" grounds, and continued to live and work happily in the U.S. Which is to say that 30 years on, it would not be a story at all. So it's much safer to focus on the victim's age removing any legal question of consent than to get tied up in that thorny "he said, she said" stuff about her begging Polanski to stop and being terrified of him.

Second, Polanski was "demonized by the press" because he raped a child, and was convicted because he pled guilty. He "feared heavy sentencing" because drugging and raping a child is generally frowned upon by the legal system. Shore really wants us to pity him because of these things? (And, I am not making this up, boycott the entire country of Switzerland for arresting him.)

As ludicrous as Shore's post is, I have to agree with Fecke that my favorite Polanski apologist is the Washington Post's Anne Applebaum, who finds it "bizarre" that anyone is still pursuing this case. And who also, by the by, failed to disclose the tiny, inconsequential detail that her husband, Polish foreign minister Radoslaw Sikorski, is actively pressuring U.S. authorities to drop the case.

There is evidence of judicial misconduct in the original trial. There is evidence that Polanski did not know her real age. Polanski, who panicked and fled the U.S. during that trial, has been pursued by this case for 30 years, during which time he has never returned to America, has never returned to the United Kingdom., has avoided many other countries, and has never been convicted of anything else. He did commit a crime, but he has paid for the crime in many, many ways: In notoriety, in lawyers' fees, in professional stigma. He could not return to Los Angeles to receive his recent Oscar. He cannot visit Hollywood to direct or cast a film.

There is also evidence that Polanski raped a child. There is evidence that the victim did not consent, regardless of her age. There is evidence -- albeit purely anecdotal, in this case -- that only the most debased crapweasel thinks "I didn't know she was 13!" is a reasonable excuse for raping a child, much less continuing to rape her after she's said no repeatedly. There is evidence that the California justice system does not hold that "notoriety, lawyers' fees and professional stigma" are an appropriate sentence for child rape.

But hey, he wasn't allowed to pick up his Oscar in person! For the love of all that's holy, hasn't the man suffered enough?

Granted, Roman Polanski has indeed suffered a great deal in his life, which is where Applebaum takes her line of argument next:

He can be blamed, it is true, for his original, panicky decision to flee. But for this decision I see mitigating circumstances, not least an understandable fear of irrational punishment. Polanski's mother died in Auschwitz. His father survived Mauthausen. He himself survived the Krakow ghetto, and later emigrated from communist Poland.

Surviving the Holocaust certainly could lead to an "understandable fear of irrational punishment," but being sentenced for pleading guilty to child rape is basically the definition of rational punishment. Applebaum then points out that Polanski was a suspect in the murder of his pregnant wife, Sharon Tate, a crime actually committed by the Manson family -- but again, that was the unfortunate consequence of a perfectly rational justice system. Most murdered pregnant women were killed by husbands or boyfriends, so that suspicion was neither personal nor unwarranted. This isn't Kafkaesque stuff.

But what of the now-45-year-old victim, who received a settlement from Polanski in a civil case, saying she'd like to see the charges dropped? Shouldn't we be honoring her wishes above all else?

In a word, no. At least, not entirely. I happen to believe we should honor her desire not to be the subject of a media circus, which is why I haven't named her here, even though she chose to make her identity public long ago. But as for dropping the charges, Fecke said it quite well: "I understand the victim's feelings on this. And I sympathize, I do. But for good or ill, the justice system doesn't work on behalf of victims; it works on behalf of justice."

It works on behalf of the people, in fact -- the people whose laws in every state make it clear that both child rape and fleeing prosecution are serious crimes. The point is not to keep 76-year-old Polanski off the streets or help his victim feel safe. The point is that drugging and raping a child, then leaving the country before you can be sentenced for it, is behavior our society should not -- and at least in theory, does not -- tolerate, no matter how famous, wealthy or well-connected you are, no matter how old you were when you finally got caught, no matter what your victim says about it now, no matter how mature she looked at 13, no matter how pushy her mother was, and no matter how many really swell movies you've made.

Roman Polanski raped a child. No one, not even him, disputes that. Regardless of whatever legal misconduct might have gone on during his trial, the man admitted to unlawful sex with a minor. But the Polanski apologism we're seeing now has been heating up since "Roman Polanski: Wanted and Desired," the 2008 documentary about Polanski's fight to get the conviction dismissed. Writing in Salon, Bill Wyman criticized the documentary's whitewashing of Polanksi's crimes last February, after Superior Court Judge Peter Espinoza ruled that if the director wanted to challenge the conviction, he'd need to turn himself in to U.S. authorities and let the justice system sort it out. "Fugitives don't get to dictate the terms of their case ... Polanski deserves to have any potential legal folderol investigated, of course. But the fact that Espinoza had to state the obvious is testimony to the ways in which the documentary, and much of the media coverage the director has received in recent months, are bizarrely skewed."

The reporting on Polanski's arrest has been every bit as "bizarrely skewed," if not more so. Roman Polanski may be a great director, an old man, a husband, a father, a friend to many powerful people, and even the target of some questionable legal shenanigans. He may very well be no threat to society at this point. He may even be a good person on balance, whatever that means. But none of that changes the basic, undisputed fact: Roman Polanski raped a child. And rushing past that point to focus on the reasons why we should forgive him, pity him, respect him, admire him, support him, whatever, is absolutely twisted.

http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/09/28/polanski_arrest/

September 25th, 2009

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31. 206 Bones - Kathy Reichs
30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama
28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

A fun read, and I always love the science in her novels, but I was a bit disappointed at how quickly I figured out what happened and who was the bad guy. This is maybe a little better than when suspicion is cast is so many directions that it seems contrived, but I'm always a disappointed when the audience figures things out long before the experts the story is about. That's why I like watching Bones way more than Castle (OMG why did I think of checking for prints inside the glove a full minute before the cops on screen did?). The very last couple of pages didn't seem like they were directed at me. However, this was a good read and I am very glad that Tempe was back in Montreal. The books in Charlotte are nice, but I like the addition of French phrases (and profanity).

September 22nd, 2009

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Wow, the Fall Quarter starts tomorrow. I've had a hell of a quarter break. I love the new place, even though it gets a lot hotter in the afternoons and colder at night. With a two bedroom place in a great location like this I don't see the need to move again until we're ready to buy our own place. *knocks on wood*

We saw Josh's dad on Sunday (he's getting married in a few weeks, by the way) and he decided to buy Kaitlin some toy chests at Ikea. Between that and a run to Target, her room looks pretty good and is pretty well organized. We just need to get something on her walls, they look pretty bare. Our room is still a mess because I haven't figured out where to put a lot of our junk. And even though I've filled all the bookshelves I still have two boxes of books left. (This is not entirely a surprise since we were two books deep on a lot of shelves before.)

I've got most of what I need for school. All the books that the bookstore website says I need I have already, though I bought them from Amazon instead. The school wanted $200 for a book I got at Amazon for $116! I will need to buy a "reader" for one of my classes though. I hate those. They're invariably cheaply made (which is kind of the point I suppose), you can't buy them at any bookstore which usually means you get sent *somewhere* in Hayward to a copy shop to pick it up, there is no way to get it before the quarter starts, and you can't do anything with it after the quarter ends. You either keep it or chuck it in the recycling bin. I have gotten to look a two of the syllabi for the fall. I may be in a bit over my head, but I'll try anyway. I was disappointed to learn that Urban Sociology is a research and writing course, especially since I'm also taking a research methods course which will also involve a lot of, you guessed it, research. I suppose if I don't like research then Sociology isn't really the field for me, so I should get used to it.

Kaitlin's birthday is coming up. Since we have a nice backyard here I'm going to try to do the party outside, but it is in the middle of October so we'll have a backup plan inside in case of rain. I'm not sure what to do with the kids to make it more of a "party". Obviously there will be cake and ice cream, but I'm less sure about games and such. I thought maybe I'd have them paint miniature pumpkins for Halloween, but that only kills so much time. I need to think of something else too.

September 19th, 2009

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30. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America - Barbara Ehrenreich
29. Dreams From My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance - Barack Obama

28. The Bride of Anguished English: A Bonanza of Bloopers, Blunders, Botches, and Boo-Boos - Richard Lederer
27. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies - Jane Austin and Seth Grahame-Smith
26. Babylon 5 Book #9: To Dream in the City of Sorrows - Kathryn M. Drennan
25. Babylon 5 Book #8: Personal Agendas - Al Sarrantonio
24. Babylon 5 Book #7: The Shadow Within - Jeanne Cavelos
23. Babylon 5 Book #6: Betrayals - S. M. Stirling
22. Babylon 5 Book #5: The Touch of Your Shadow, the Whisper of Your Name - Neal Barrett Jr.
21. The Physics of the Buffyverse - Jennifer Ouellette
20. Babylon 5 Book #4: Clark's Law - Jim Mortimore
19. Babylon 5 Book #3: Blood Oath - John Vornholt
18. Babylon 5 Book #2: Accusations - Lois Tilton
17. Superman: Exile - DC comics
16. Lessons From the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body - Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
15. The Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich
14. Strapped: Why America's 20- and 30-Somethings Can't Get Ahead - Tamara Draut
13. No Fat Chicks: How Big Business Profits by Making Women Hate Their Bodies--And How to Fight Back - Terry Poulton
12. The Obesity Myth: Why America's Obsession With Weight is Hazardous to Your Health - Paul Campos
11. Atonement - Ian McEwan
10. The Tempest - William Shakespeare
9. Goodnight Nobody - Jennifer Weiner
8. Watchmen - Alan Moore
7. Factotum - Charles Bukowski
6. Better than Life - Grant Naylor
5. Red Dwarf - Grant Naylor
4. Feed Me: Writers Dish About Food, Eating, Weight, and Body Image - Harriet Brown (ed.)
3. Get Thee to a Punnery - Richard Lederer
2. PartnerShip - Anne McCaffrey and Margaret Ball
1. Pegasus in Flight - Anne McCaffrey

September 14th, 2009

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My cell phone has been located! It was in the *other* lego box. I'm impressed that it was still on and working after a week lost. I must have a good battery. We've got the old place cleaned up now and I'm just working on getting the new place in order. Today we went to the hardware store to get some things to get the place ready like anchor bolts for the bookshelves, another towel rack, and a replacement doorknob for the bathroom since it can close and lock, but you'd need a key to unlock it from the outside. I like the privacy of having a bathroom door you can actually close and lock, but I don't want Kaitlin to be able to lock herself in there with no way for us to get her out. We were going to go to IKEA to pick up some stuff for Kaitlin's bedroom, but Dad Darrell is going to come by next weekend and take us shopping instead. (In other family news, it turns out Darrell is engaged! The wedding is the day after Kaitlin's birthday, so that will be a busy weekend.)

While unpacking books and sorting them into fiction and non-fiction I found out that I have a really old book. I already knew about the century-old complete works of Shakespeare, but that has a dog bite out of the spine so I figure it's worthless. This one that I found is ©1900, The Riddle of the Universe by Ernst Haeckel. I'd never heard of the guy before, but given the biography at Wiki he seems notable so this might actually be worth something. (Or possibly not since I can see on the front page it had been sold previously at a used bookstore for 75¢.) I'd be more impressed if it was one of his science books instead of one on philosophy, but it's still pretty cool.

Unrelated to moving, I've started watching the first season of Heroes on Netflix. It's pretty good for an X-men ripoff with Watchmen themes. :p

Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert are back tonight after three weeks off the air and I cannot wait. Politics have been crazy-making for the last three weeks which is extra infuriating when I don't have the satirical take on it to make me laugh.

September 11th, 2009

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Happy birthday [info]olmandude.

September 8th, 2009

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We are moved in to the new place and I even managed to find all the computer stuff!

Whew, I am totally exhausted though. We had a lot of great help from friends and family alike, so it didn't take too long to get everything moved over. We started around 11am and I think we were finished around 4. Alas, all the moving of boxes we did before the big day didn't keep up from needing to do two trips, but it did make the second trip much smaller, which is good because by then we were all running out of steam.

Unfortunately the cell phone I lost a couple days before didn't turn up while we were packing everything and neither did Josh's wallet, so those might just have to be taken as lost. One other casualty of the move, somehow the left speaker for the computer is broken. It's plugged in the right place, it has power, and the computer is set up to play through both channels, but no sound. We did find the pillow we thought was missing though. It was in a box marked "kitchen" (the box was emptied and re-used without being re-labeled). So far I've mostly got the kitchen and bathroom set up and a lot of clothes put away. Tonight or tomorrow we'll figure out how we want to arrange the living room and then I can worry about getting the bookshelves in their permanent locations.

I forgot what a pain in the butt it is to move, and how expensive it is. At least after we get (most of) our deposit back from the old place we should be able to pay back everything we've put on the credit card, plus interest. Now that we're in a place with two bedrooms and a backyard I think we'll just stay put until we're ready to buy a house--assuming of course that I can find a job in the area after I graduate next year. It always comes back down to that.

I am very glad that school doesn't start for two more weeks. I will definitely need the time to clean at the old place and set up the new one.

August 28th, 2009

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Attempting this recipe for Spanish rice

http://www.cooks.com/rec/view/0,1757,128178-249198,00.html

only using brown rice instead of white (because that's what I have), omitting the tomato paste ('cause I don't have any) and substituting chicken stock for the water. We'll see how it goes.

ETA: Not sure if it's because it was brown rice or just the recipe, but 1/4 cup oil for 1 cup rice was too much, it ended up a little greasy for my tastes. I should also use the tomato paste next time for the flavor, but overall, it was tasty. :)

August 24th, 2009

Kaitlin: Daddy, how do you spell "olive"?

Josh: Olive? It's spelled O-L-I-V-E.

Kaitlin: Yeah! Olive! These are olive our boxes!

August 21st, 2009

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Things to do for moving:

Give 30 day notice
Pay deposit
File change of address form with Post Office
Change address with DMV 1/2 done, Josh still needs to
Register to vote at new address
Change address w/banks
Change address w/insurance companies
Pay first month's rent at new place
Pay last month's rent at old place
Pack everything
Transfer Gas/Electric service
Transfer Phone/DSL service
Set up Water service in progress
Reserve a moving truck
Clean the shit out of this place


Am I forgetting anything?

August 20th, 2009

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I've got some comic books I'm getting rid of, so I thought I'd see if anyone on LJ wanted them before I see if the comic book store will buy them or try to sell them on craigslist or something. (Or, if I'm lazy, just donating them to Goodwill.)

The comics are )

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Packing has started in earnest now. Though I will definitely need to get more boxes! (Any locals have some I could have by chance?) I've packed six boxes already and only emptied one bookcase!

I have gotten in our 30 day notice to the current landlords and paid the deposit on the new place. I also got in the change of address form for the post office. I need to dig up the phone numbers for all our utilities so I can switch service over and now we're going to have to pay for our water service after six years of not needing to so I'll have to look up the water utility's number as well so we can set up an account. We have a lot to do in the next 18 days.

August 19th, 2009

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I found the most awesome thing at the grocery store today.

Star Trek toaster waffles, bitches!

more pics this way )

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I'm supposed to be writing 300 words somehow related to feminism, sex, gender, or sexuality, and I've got nothing. That is my entire guideline right there, just 300 words on any topic like that. I have no clue. Honestly now that we've gotten bogged down in technical essays and we don't even get any class discussion (since it's an online course) I'm pretty bored with the class, so I have no idea what to say.

August 16th, 2009

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We got a call yesterday from the landlord of the 2-bed apartment we looked at a while back. Apparently the people they offered it to backed out (one of them got a job in San Jose, so they decided to stay in Union City instead of moving to Albany) so she wanted to know if we were still interested. She thought she didn't have an application from me so she was going to send me another one.

Today, I got another call from her letting me know that she found the application and we can have the apartment if we want it! So we're going in tomorrow at 11:00 to go look at the rental agreement. Barring any absolutely unacceptable terms in the lease or really strange new things in the apartment itself, we're going to be moving in a few weeks!

I'm nervous about it already! There is going to be so much to do. We've got to get a shitload of boxes to pack up all the books. We've got to change addresses with everyone, switch our services over, give notice to our current landlords, arrange for carpet cleaning, and probably get rid of a bunch of junk. Still, a place with a yard (with grass even!) and a patio, and a freaking second bedroom! And for pretty much what we're paying right now!

August 14th, 2009

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We've got a weird problem with the car. The tumbler for the lock on the driver side door is broken. I put the key in and turned it and nothing happened. It won't unlock the door. It won't lock the door either. I can turn it, but it doesn't do anything. We could live with it for a while, I suppose since the one on the passenger side is fine, but if we ever have someone park too close to us on the right side we're sunk. (The back doors can't be unlocked with a key.) I guess I'll have to take the car in, but I have no idea how much it would cost and we've only got $50 to last us until next Thursday. Which would be plenty unless, oh say, the car breaks.

We can probably live with it for a week, as long as no one parks to close to me at school since I'll have to drive during the BART strike.

August 13th, 2009

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Neil Gaiman posted a link to this on Twitter yesterday. It is amazingly beautiful.



I'm sure there are parts of it I don't fully understand since I'm not Ukrainian, but the overall story is still there (not to mention a little Metallica).

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They opened up a graduate seminar on Globalization to undergrads with a 3.0 GPA in the fall, with instructor permission. I signed up and emailed the instructor, and I'm in! This is so cool! My major complaint with my sociology classes, even the good ones, has been that they feel like an introduction to a topic rather than anything really in depth. With a graduate level course that shouldn't be as big of an issue.
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